dear Jim:

　　hello !I remember you have told me you are so shy that you don't have the courage to talk to the stranger in a party .but i want to tell you ,you are a good guy ,what you only need is confidence .

　　so ,you must learn to be confident.in this way ,you can express you personlity fully.this is the key to making others attracted to you .you should believe you are outstanding and excellent.you can do anything you want .

　　secondly,you must learn to know what is you advantage. pick up a topic you familiar with and you will find you have content to say .

　　third ,you must learn some skill about talking .you can have a try how to be humourous and listen to others carefully when they are talking because they will think you respect them very much .they will think you are adorable.

　　i believe you can overcome you shyness and be successful in communicating with strangers.

　　yours

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